Montreal – Eclectic and Lovely

While I am adapting to retired life and struggling to put some structure to my days, my beloved is still employed and struggling to make the most of his downtime.  One way we can meet in the middle is for me to travel with him when his business takes him away from home. This works especially well when the business is local enough for us to travel by car.

We’re very careful to keep any expenses related to my presence completely separate, and I don’t participate in any business-related meals or activities. We don’t want anything to take this away from us.  But we have the leisurely time together in the car, some evenings in fun places, and we occasionally linger at our destination an extra day or so on our own nickel, creating a nice mini-vacation.

This Fall, we’ve managed two trips to Canada – one to Stratford, Ontario, and a longer one to Montreal, Quebec. I hadn’t been to Montreal in many, many years (I was last there as a child with my family), and looked forward to exploring. During the two weekdays when my hubby was tied up in meetings, I treated myself to a hop on-hop off bus tour (gotta love Gray Line Tours), and wandered around some wonderful spots.

Part of the fun of the hop-on, hop-off tours is that each time you hop on, you get a new guide with a slightly different approach… and you can keep going around all day! I learned that most people who live in Montreal are multi-lingual. In addition to needing the national tongues of French, and English, many also hang onto the family languages of prior generations – and Montreal is a fabulous melting pot.

There is so much to see and do – there are beautiful parks, the old town, museums, a vibrant nightlife, more shopping than anyone needs, a financial center that pre-dates the one in Toronto (now larger), and an incredible history. Let me share some of the fabulous sights/sites I enjoyed with you – as I did with my beloved when we stayed through the weekend!

This building is Place Ville Marie – designed by I. M. Pei (there are little glass pyramids in the courtyard, similar to those at the Louvre.) This image shows half of the building – the footprint is an X or a cross. It’s one of the oldest skyscrapers in the city and turned 50 while we were there. Beneath this building is where about 19 miles of underground shopping begins – a whole city (everything but residences) with stores, restaurants, and offices exists under the streets.

And… across the street are the Marie-Reine-du-Monde church and the Queen Elizabeth Hotel. The church was designed to be like St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome. On the 14th floor of the hotel, John Lennon wrote Give Peace and Chance, and he and Yoko Ono first recorded it.

Montreal has a tiny Chinatown district. It’s about one square block – if you click to enlarge this photo, you can see the gate at the other end through the gate at the front!

We wandered through on our way to the Old City (Vieux Montreal.)

The Place D’Armes is the first place we stopped in Old Montreal. In the plaza, there is a statue of Maisonneuve, one of the founders of the city, as well as the beautiful Notre Dame Cathedral. We went there again after our dinner to see the plaza at night – click on the photo and look at the shadow the lights against the statue throw onto the building behind it!

The cathedral is lovely from the outside by day or night, but nothing can really prepare you for the breathtaking colors inside. In addition to the main sanctuary bathed in blues, there is a chapel in the back of the church, with a large bronze relief behind the altar.  Mark Twain said something to the effect that you can’t throw a rock in Montreal without hitting a church – and there are some beauties – but this is one to visit, if you have the chance. The carvings, the ceiling, the stained glass and artwork, the organ… wow.

I could have stayed there for hours!

However, we moved on… there’s Chateau Ramezay, a small red-shuttered house, which was the home of the first governor of Montreal – and of the administrative offices as well.  It’s across the street from the old City Hall.  Some of the last remaining pieces of the old city wall are behind this building. Very cool.

Just down the block is Place Jacques Cartier, where there is a statue to Admiral Nelson (smaller, but similar to the one in Trafalgar Square.)  This plaza is full of restaurants and “buskers” performing throughout the day, and is the first access we had to St. Paul Street, which is full of artists and craftsman.  The plaza runs from old City Hall down to the Old Harbor.

After stopping in a shop to buy a small print, we headed down toward the harbor.

There are a science museum and archeological museum near the waterfront, and the week we were there, tall ships were visiting the harbor.  There are beautiful views of the St. Lawrence River and two small islands that are an important part of the city’s recent history.  Montreal was host to the World’s Fair in 1967 and the Olympics in 1976. To prepare for Expo 67, they put in a subway system – and the dirt they dug out was used to expand/create the islands where the World’s Fair was held.  Only about eight of the structures from that venture remain. One pavilion became what is now a casino, and the US Pavilion (the Biosphere) remains as an ecological museum.

One other thing that remains is Habitat 67 – originally built as affordable housing, but now occupied by wealthier people. Each unit is built with views of the river and the Montreal skyline.

It’s really an interesting set of buildings!

There’s so much more… river boat rides are available, a former commercial canal now provides recreational space…  Up in the new city there is fabulous shopping on St. Catherines Street, there are history and art museums, there are universities and wonderful restaurants, and of course, there is Mount Royal (Mont Real.)

There are some great things up on the mountain. St. Joseph’s Oratory is there. This is a church – but not a parish church. It’s for pilgrims. There are three staircases leading up to the sanctuary – the center one is silver and, if used, must be climbed by the pilgrim on his knees.  It’s an amazing place.

There is also a large cemetery (Central Park large), a huge Cross that is lit up at night – and an absolutely spectacular view of parts of the city. From here, you can better understand that Montreal itself is a large island between two rivers. The Olympic stadium is visible, and the size of the city, beyond the downtown area, is amazing.

So… when you go to Montreal give yourself a few days to see the old and new cities, stop in to some of Mr. Twain’s churches, and hit a few of the gazillion stores. Maybe take in a museum or two, and definitely seek out a variety of restaurants.

It’s a wonderful place.

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To Every Thing There is a Season…

Maybe it’s that I’m retired and have time to think about these things. Maybe it’s that my mom, the last of my kids’ grandparents, passed away this year. Maybe it’s that it’s a gray Autumn day, and I’m feeling it a little “in my bones.”

I’m very conscious that there are seasons to my life.

I was unaware of this in my early Spring, when everything was new and exciting, and it seemed that life held nothing but possibilities. Each new idea or opportunity was a budding branch in my world. Each book, or song, or new place became part of the colors blooming around me, filling in the landscapes of my days.

As that season progressed and life became fuller,  my parents tried to guide me, to help me understand that not every opportunity would be indefinitely available, and that certain fruits, like education, might be best enjoyed when they were offered in season.

I began to look at the people around me, and to understand that they were in different stages of their lives. Not all adults were still striving for more; some had found contentment – they were enjoying their peak years and had achieved the growth that fulfilled them.

My Summer days were filled with marriage and children (growing and grown), and all the bustling life and activity that surrounded them. We were active in church and civic groups, we expanded our community socially and professionally. My beloved and I pushed to achieve our monetary objectives, in order to feed the eco-system that was our home. Life was everywhere. We began to mature.

Finding balance in those times was always a challenge – the resources needed to nurture, grow, and educate a family were considerable. The care and feeding of our family, and the cultivation of each aspect, required planning and time. Time was a resource we prized more every day. As we looked ahead to our futures, we realized with each year that there was a growing need to conserve and prepare for the coming Autumn and Winter.

Then the leaves began to fall from the trees – the kids left home to start their own families, and we relinquished some of our civic and other positions to “new blood” with fresh energy and ideas. Where our resources were concerned, we focused more on preservation for the future (and recreation while the climate allowed) than on immediate daily needs.

I retired from my 37-year career altogether. My beloved retired from one career, and moved to one that allowed more flexibility – and now we will work together for a smooth transition to full retirement for him down the road. The glorious thing about this Autumn season is that it provides such a wide range of new opportunities.  We no longer need to sustain the branches that our children occupied, and we can focus on our own core.

The color palette in this part of our lives allows for some travel, more flexibility in where we live, and trying different kinds of work, when we choose.  The vibrancy of the reds, yellows, and remaining greens in the coming years is exciting.  Lord willing, we will keep up (and maybe even improve) our health, and we will travel through this season together for quite a while.

We know that nothing lasts forever. We know there are many things we might have done better (and for that matter, we might have done worse) in the seasons gone by.  When we finally move into the slower, quieter season of Winter, I hope I will still have this perspective – that I can tell my grandchildren that each part of their lives is only there for a season, but if they will embrace and make the most of what they find there, each will be quite beautiful, in its time.

Turn, Turn Turn by Pete Seeger (from Ecclesiastes), covered by The Byrds

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To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, a time to reap that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;
A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;
A time to get, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;
A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;
A time to love, and a time to hate; a time of war, and a time of peace…
…He hath made every thing beautiful in his time.
 
Ecclesiastes 3:1-8, 11a
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This post was written in response to a WordPress Weekly Writing Challenge. This week’s theme was Easy as Pie (Metaphors and Similes).   To see other bloggers’ metaphorical responses, click here. To see some of my prior posts in this vein click here:

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Where the Heck are My Glasses?

I can hear my mother chuckling at herself after misplacing something, saying, “It’s hell getting old!”  My mom was a very sharp 86 when she passed away, but she did occasionally give us gentle reminders us that she missed the energy, acuity, and multi-tasking abilities of her youth.

This morning I had a moment.

I’m visiting my sister, and we went out for dinner last night and had quite a few laughs. When we got back to her place, we stretched out on the couches and ate some Ben & Jerry’s ice cream (which neither of us should have), and watched a late movie. At some point, I got up, changed into my pajamas, turned off the lights and TV, put on my sleeping mask (there’s a full moon out there), and went to sleep.

This morning, I got up, brushed my teeth, schlepped into the kitchen and made myself some coffee, sat down and reached for my glasses.  Ummm… I reached for my glasses. On the table where I always leave them when I stay here. Because I really can’t function without them.  Or without squinting so hard I get a headache.

My glasses weren’t there.

I carefully examined the table, the floor around it, the couches and chairs. I checked in the bathroom and kitchen, my duffle bag, and numerous other places. Bear in mind, without them on, I wasn’t really confident I’d see them, but I looked anyway.

As soon as my sister came downstairs and joined me (she’d slipped upstairs during the night), she (with both contacts and glasses available), joined in the search. Which soon became a witch hunt. We retraced our steps, went through the trash, reached under all the chairs, and generally acted like people mildly deranged as we became increasingly frustrated. And in my case, panicky.

We finally narrowed down a corner where they had to be, and actually moved the furniture. Voila!  Somehow, my invaluable specs had fallen from the table and skated under the couch.

Crisis averted.  I’ll be able to see to drive home now.  I won’t live the day with a headache. My sister is my hero.  My precious glasses have been returned to me.

It’s hell getting old.

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This post was written in response to the Weekly Photo Challenge on WordPress.com’s Daily Post. This week’s challenge topic is Mine. To learn more about the challenge and to see the possessive images posted by other bloggers, click here.

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Bathing in the Glow of the Forest – Walking the Air Line Trail

 
 
This is the forest primeval. The murmuring pines and the hemlocks,
Bearded with moss, and in garments green, indistinct in the twilight,
Stand like Druids of old, with voices sad and prophetic,
Stand like harpers hoar, with beards that rest on their bosoms
Loud from its rocky caverns, the deep-voiced neighboring ocean
Speaks, and in accents disconsolate answers the wail of the forest.
 

–  Introduction to Evangeline: A Tale of Acadie  by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

Exercise outdoors is always more fun when you do it with somebody else.  That’s why my beloved and I have two single kayaks. And a tandem kayak. And a canoe. We can choose all sorts of ways to paddle together, and with other friends and family!

And paddling isn’t the only way we choose to enjoy the great outdoors together. There’s also the simple, year-round option of walking. We really enjoy walking our street – the Fall and Spring are especially nice for meeting neighbors doing the same. We’ve enjoyed meeting both people and pooches on our rounds! When we want a long walk, though, we’ve found a wonderful  place.

There are lots of walking trails, but we’re partial to the Air Line Trail, which is nearby, and tree covered most of the way. It’s one of many unused railroad corridors across the US which have been converted into recreational public trails. Each state funds and supports these trails (through Connecticut DEP Greenways for us.) They are also part of the national Rails-to-Trails Conservancy.  This is a fabulous way to use already cleared paths.

There are different sections of the Air Line Trail that we wander for up to 6 miles at a time, taking in the sights, sounds, and smells of the forests around us.  The character of each walk is affected by the time of day, weather, and season, but a visit to the Trail always leaves us feeling invigorated. We think we know why.

The Japanese call walking in wooded areas Shinrin-yoku, or “forest bathing.”  There is serious evidence of the therapeutic effects of the practice – it’s been called natural aromatherapy.  It’s also peaceful, lovely, and a wonderful way to enjoy the natural world around us.

Often we walk for quite a while without even speaking, just taking in the aromas and views around us.  For us, there’s no better way to hit the reset button on a frantic and frazzled week than to step into this quiet wooded world hiding just a few miles away from our home.

As we look forward to our (we hope, increasingly healthy) retirement together, forest bathing will definitely always be a part of our plan.

Try it; you’ll like it.

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For more on forest bathing, see these links:

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Taking Care of Business… Some Thank You Notes

I am a little overwhelmed and very appreciative – I’ve been nominated for a number of great blogging awards over the past months. I wanted to do the acceptance posts properly, so I’ve been pitifully slow about it. I apologize. It took me a little time to select appropriate nominees – but now I’m ready!

My sincere thanks to the the following kind souls for their nominations:              Pat Bailey at I Miss Me, Too (One Lovely Blog Award), both CanadianTravelBugs and Cyberbonnn at Just Cats (Beautiful Blogger Award), LubbyGirl at REmissionary (Very Inspiring Blogger Award), and FirstandFabulous (Gemma) at Dear Bliary (No Strings Attached/Gratitude Award).  I appreciate the thoughtfulness of each of these interesting bloggers – Please visit them at the links provided above to see why they also received these awards!

I accept awards because it makes me happy, but also because the acceptance process does something that’s important, especially for newer bloggers: It shares information about interesting blogs, and helps us get to know one another.

Here are the requirements for accepting each of these awards (except for the No Strings Attached/Gratitude Award):

  1. Thank the blogger who nominated you and share a link to that blog – Done! 
  2. Attach the award icon  to your site – Done!
  3. Share seven random things about yourself:  I’m getting braver about writing; I love being on the water; I’m a terrible procrastinator; I want a new digital SLR camera; I’m a real klutz; I like loading the dishwasher but hate unloading it; I’m married to a twin. 
  4. And finally, offer the specified number of “pay it forward” nominations, advising those bloggers that they’ve been nominated and how to accept the award. (I’ve listed the mandated number of nominees for each award below, and to maximize the number of blogs you can visit, haven’t duplicated them.)

One Lovely Blog Award Nominees (7):

  1. http://pigletinportugal.com/about/ All things Portugal
  2. http://warmhotchocolate.com/about/ Travel, Creative ideas for kids
  3. http://playamart.wordpress.com/about/ Artist with a wonderful outlook
  4. http://thekovies.wordpress.com/ Sweet and family centered posts
  5. http://sharkyovengloves.wordpress.com/about/ recipes and travel
  6. http://shaanthz.wordpress.com/about/ recipes, health, and photos
  7. http://janetsnotebook.com/about/ creative craft ideas and more

Very Inspiring Blogger Award Nominees (15):

  1. http://untitledadventure.wordpress.com/about/ Varied posts with an interesting outlook
  2. http://joyfulwise.com/about/ Lovely creative posts
  3. http://eof737.wordpress.com/about/ Lovely, varied posts with a family centered theme
  4. http://thismansjourney.net/about/ Simple, lovely family centered blog
  5. http://mostlybrightideas.wordpress.com/about-2/ great writing and cute cartoons
  6. http://melodylowes.com/about/ poetry, photos, encouragement
  7. http://katherinesdaughter.com/about-2/ inspiration and encouragement
  8. http://spiritualworldtraveler.wordpress.com/about/ travel, photos
  9. http://joycannis.wordpress.com/whats-this-all-about/ poems, photos, spirituality
  10. http://fathersightings.wordpress.com/about-fathersightings/ reflections, photos
  11. http://sharechair.wordpress.com/awards// inspiring us to learn new technology and more!
  12. http://retireediary.wordpress.com/about/ musings of a fellow retiree, great photos
  13. http://godslover.wordpress.com/about/ lovely photos, simple musings
  14. http://coastalcrone.com/about-the-crone/ poetry, travel, photos and more
  15. http://livingtheseasons.com/about-me/ writings, photography, memories

Beautiful Blogger Award Nominees (15):

  1. http://travellersoul76.com/about-me/ World travel
  2. http://yichinglin.com/about/ Fabulous photos
  3. http://rutheh.com/about/ Wonderful photography
  4. http://dauwgalerij.blogspot.be/ Photography, music selections and more
  5. http://davidrwetzelphotography.wordpress.com/about/ great photography
  6. http://globetrottersara.wordpress.com/about/ travel/photography
  7. http://creativityaroused.wordpress.com/about/ poetry, photography
  8. http://travelswithtoby.wordpress.com/about/ travel, photography
  9. http://www.challenge-activ.com/Wordpress/ travel, photography
  10. http://soundslikewish.wordpress.com/about/ WWII photos, travel, photos
  11. http://cjvl.wordpress.com/about/ a medley of musing and photos
  12. https://campanulladellaanna.wordpress.com/ wonderful Photos
  13. https://shareandconnect.wordpress.com/ travel, lovely photos, and more
  14. http://smallhousebiggarden.wordpress.com/about/ plants, photos, musings
  15. http://marigoldsmind.wordpress.com/about/ nice mixed bag of musings and photos

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(No Strings Attached) Gratitude Award Nominees (0 required – but I chose 10):

This one I’m sending out to some bloggers who maintain great sites of their own, but always take time to visit and comment on other bloggers’ posts. They (among others) have supported and encouraged me regularly.  No strings on accepting this one, folks!

  1. http://firstandfabulous.wordpress.com/about/  – Right back atcha, Gemma!
  2. http://jeffsinonphotography.wordpress.com/about/
  3. http://imissmetoo.me/about-me/
  4. http://canoecommunications.wordpress.com/about/
  5. http://remissionary.wordpress.com/about-3/
  6. http://windagainstcurrent.com/about/
  7. http://theurgetowander.com/about-me/
  8. http://wheresmybackpack.com/about/
  9. http://francineinretirement.wordpress.com/
  10. http://jobryantnz.wordpress.com/about/

I hope, whether or not these bloggers opt to accept their nominations, that you will choose to visit some or all of them, and perhaps connect with a new kindred spirit or two along the way!

I am somewhat embarrassed to say that while I dithered over these, I have received a couple of new nominations. To those kind folks: I haven’t forgotten you; I am working on my acceptance post now. In the meantime, thanks so much for putting up with me and reading all the way to the bottom – Like most acceptance “speeches,” this ran too long!  Maybe I should create a Patient Reader Award!!

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The Autumn Leaves… Fabulous Foliage

We’ve lived most of our married life in either Upstate New York or New England – two of the première areas for Autumn “leaf-peeping.” We love our Autumn leaves.

In the Winter, only the last vestiges of leaves remain. Oak trees may hang on to theirs all winter, but they’re tired and have lost their youthful colors.

In the Spring, the tender new leaves are a paler, fresher green awating long days of photosynthesis bathing in the sun.

By mid-Summer, the woods are dense with lush, dark green leaves. The forest floor is barely visible as foliage covers everything. Birds and squirrels hide safely in the branches. Life is in full swing.

So, we come full circle.

Eventually, the days start getting shorter, the nights get longer and cooler, and these signals tell the plants it’s time to prepare for winter hibernation. Sap slows, and leaves change colors, dry, and fall from their branches.

Autumn colors are nature’s last gasp before the pale shades of winter drop over our little corner of the world. And in New England, nature has a blast.

     

[Click on individual photos to see the images full-size.]

I love the Fall – I’ve always been an Autumn girl.  I’m not sure why, but for me Autumn is more about the promise of a new beginning than the ending of something.  I know some people see that differently, and feel that Autumn is the beginning of the end.  Sitting here in what some would call the Autumn of my life, I can tell you I still see so much ahead, and I want to celebrate that, along with the vibrant foliage.

Perspective is everything.

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This post was written in response to a Travel Theme challenge from Ailsa at wheresmybackpack. This week’s theme is Foliage.  To learn more about the challenge and see the leafy posts from other bloggersclick here.

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Other nice renditions of Autumn Leaves, also found on YouTube:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n2s2tPORlW4&feature=related (Edith Piaf sings Autumn Leaves in English and the original French!)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TZ0cPnOilHs&feature=related (Natalie Cole)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EnAD_KULFBo&feature=related (Diana Krall)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMN3uk7zeBA&feature=related (Frank Sinatra)

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