Maggie the Magnificent – a Mother’s Day Message

When we’re kids, if we’re lucky, our parents are our role models and our heroes.  I thought my mom was the prettiest, smartest woman in the world, and that my dad was the most handsome and capable man who ever lived.

Of course, as I grew up I learned they were mere mortals like the rest of us (although, still special, of course!)  My dad passed away several years ago, but my mother is still my hero.  She handles everything with humor and grace, and even when she’s uncomfortable herself, she’s never unkind or unpleasant to those around her.

My mother taught me to read – and that I could be anything.  She taught me to do laundry – and that everyone should take a turn at community service. She taught me to put myself in another’s shoes – and that happy people don’t feel the need to be difficult or mean.  She taught me that “if you have a personality, somebody won’t like it” – and it’s best to make the most of what you have rather than wishing to be someone else.  She taught me to always err on the side of kindness – and the value of being a loyal friend.

She taught me all of this by example.

And not just me.  She’s taught my sister, our friends, our children, grandchildren, and extended family.  She taught the Brownies & Girl Scouts she led, the YWCA kids she mentored, and the VISTA (domestic Peace Corps) volunteers she supervised.  She took her turns as our Sunday School teacher, camp nurse, and school librarian. She had an impact on her co-workers, her students, and pretty much anyone who came in contact with her.  She’s a bright, funny, unassuming, and thoughtful person.

This isn’t to say she’s a pushover.  She’s a canny Scot with a creative wit and at least one foot planted firmly on the ground.  She’s had successful careers in PR and magazine editing and writing, as well as being a nurse. She doesn’t tolerate nastiness or irresponsibility.  She has always expected good manners and respect from us – and not just toward her, but toward everyone we meet. She lives her faith quietly and gracefully. She’s always made us want to be like her, and proud to be her daughters.

So, Grannie/Grandma/Mummy/Maggie:  With lots of love, thank you for being you, and Happy Mother’s Day!

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Undertaking the Challenge – Day 1

Today’s the day!  My beloved is not travelling overseas for a few weeks, we have our 24-Day Challenge products, and we’ve hit the grocery store with a clear and limited focus! The Challenge is just that – not just because it limits what we eat, but because it requires that we change our habits and thought processes about what we eat.  At our ages, changing habits doesn’t come easily – that’s one of the reasons we’re doing this together – hopefully, we can encourage one another and keep each other honest!

There are three components to this for us:

  1. The Challenge itself – We have taken our weights and measurements, written them down, and set them aside.  The focus here is not really on weight-loss, but on a lifestyle change.  So… we will update this data at the ten-day mark, and then again at the end of the Challenge, but not in between. Meanwhile, we will follow the Challenge protocols to get our metabolisms back in balance and reset our eating habits.
  2. Increased sensible exercise – We will be walking more, doing some kayaking, and we have our treadmill and exer-cycle all warmed up. We are also using weights for strength & toning. The goal is to develop a good plan we can stick with going forward, even when we travel.
  3. Eating anti-inflammatory foods – As part of our meal planning, we will be cutting out foods that have inflammatory characteristics – even if the Challenge diet allows them. We’ve started this in advance for a couple of weeks, and find that it is already helping with our arthritis and overall well-being. We’ve also increased our awareness of portion control as advance preparation.

So…  off we go!  I’ll pause here to make the comment that, as with any diet, it’s so important to keep system balance. Increased percentages of protein, for example, mean the need for increased fluids to keep the kidneys clear.  We will be drinking more water.  Also, no one food should dominate just because it’s a favorite.  We’ll be trying some completely new things to keep the diet balanced – and interesting!

And just for good measure, and to keep up the sense of a refreshed me, I’ve ditched the idea (after too many months) of wearing my hair long, and have a new (my old style) haircut.  Feels good – and more like myself again. Now, I just need to get the rest of myself in shape!

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My (Retired) Life so Far

Well, it’s been six weeks since I bid farewell to my job…  so I’m thinking it’s time to take stock of what I’m doing with myself.

I’ve spent about a third of the time so far visiting with my mom and sister.  That’s been wonderful (and I’m due to go back next week), but not necessarily good for regular sleep patterns!  Along the way I’ve definitely been eating better – but that’s tomorrow’s post!

I have actually accomplished a few things.  I got our taxes filed, and I’ve been working on a full-out retirement living budget for when my beloved also stops working.  That has included some Social Security research, a review of our retirement accounts, and some rethinking about where we’ll end up living.  I’ve got a spreadsheet started, and when I get a little further along that will be a post or two of its own.

I’ve also been working on my photo archiving.  I’m a digital packrat.  Well, actually, I’m just a packrat, but through the wonders of technology, I’m hoping to reduce the amount of paper I own.  A couple of months ago, I purchased two portable hard drives. One I use as a backup of our various devices (desktops, laptops, phones, and Kindle). The other is where I’m collecting all the photos I have on other drives, cameras, cards, disks, and websites.

Websites, you say?  Yep.  I have home movies sitting out on iMemories.com.  They did the conversion to digital and then plopped them out on their site for as long as I need them there – and at this point, as long as I’m willing to pay a small nominal charge to keep them there.  (I’ve been a little slow in figuring out what I want to do with them next.)  I also have a family page on MyFamily.com, to which many aunts, uncles, cousins, etc. belong. Over the past ten years or so, we have stashed a wealth of family history there in the form of stories, comments, and photos.  I want to back that all up as well.  Ten years ago we did a family history book, but so much has happened since then! Oh, yeah, and there are some great family pictures my daughter posted so I can download them from Facebook.

It’s also my rather ambitious goal to scan in about eighty years worth of paper photos and memorabilia I have acquired from my parents, my father-in-law, and all kinds of other sources.  I am the proud holder of three or four large plastic storage bins (the size my six-year old grandson fits in) full of loose photos, albums, ancestral birth and death certificates, slides, negatives, awards, graduation programs, and – let’s be honest – who knows what else.  The only way to make sense of this stuff is to get it digitized by topic so I can share it in a useful way – CDs and DVDs for now.

But some of that may have to wait until the Fall.  I also have some work to do around my house, and out in my garden.  And, truth be told, I haven’t yet spent any time out on my back deck, or enjoying my front porch.  And the view from that porch is lovely.

Photo credits:   © Sergej Khackimullin – Fotolia.com (charts & graphs),  © 2tun – Fotolia.com (old photos)
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Weekly Photo Challenge: Unfocused

I’ve been staying with my Mom this week while my sister is away, so I’ve been remiss in posting – thank goodness for the weekly photo challenge!

This week’s WordPress Photo Challenge topic is “Unfocused” – meaning that the photo itself is not focused and sharp.   This is a fabulous topic for someone like me.  Although I really do make an effort to capture nice, clear shots, I seem to get more than my fair share of fuzzy ones.  Here’s a sampling of some interesting blurs from my ample supply:

Lanterns in a shop in San Francisco’s Chinatown …..

Leaves on a tree out the car window…

Lamp post outside the Opera House – Frankfurt-am-Main, Germany…

Night-time shot of the Halema’uma’u Crater at the heart of Kilauea on the big island of Hawaii.  This was not during an active lava flow – the fiery glow is the lava below reflecting on the steam – during the day the steam was white….

Tree branches on the shores of Loch Ness…

 

and a shot on the Royal Mile in Edinburgh

All very different and equally unfocused – and since I have clearer versions of most, I have no idea why I kept any of them!

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Weekly Photo Challenge – Together

This gallery was originally submitted in response to a WordPress photo challenge on the theme Together – two people or other things together. It has also been entered in response to a Weekly Travel Challenge by Ailsa at Wheresmybackpack on the theme of Couples. To see more about that challenge, and other bloggers’ responses, click here.

These aren’t very different, but they’re sort of fun… They’re from the Disney part of our Florida vacation a few years ago – one from Disney’s Animal Kingdom of two tigers…

one of two Disney characters strolling in one of the parks…

and the last one, which was the corner of a larger shot  that I didn’t see until I got home – two lizards at Epcot, apparently getting cozy…

 

 

 

 

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What the Heck is Homeostasis – And Where Do I Find It?

I think I was about ten years old the first time I walked through the model of the human heart at the Franklin Institute in Philadelphia, and started to understand how things inside the body fit together – my next science fair project was an explanation of the circulatory system. My mom (a nurse and a writer) was all about learning games, and picked birthday gifts for me like a microscrope, a “Visible Woman” (see through skin, with all the internal organs removable), and a chemistry set.

So, I started learning a little about the basics of human physiology and chemistry, but I didn’t really understand how much the two fit together until later.  When I was a child, parents and grandparents smoked in front of their children, and we didn’t question regular drinks at business or social lunches.  It was common to cook with butter or lard, and to add ample processed sugar or salt to just about everything.  Nobody thought about the impact of food coloring and other additives.  Our parents rarely read food labels – they were very trusting.

That all changed in the sixties with the “whole earth” movement.  Suddenly, we were barraged with information on additives, smoking, and a variety of other things impacting physiology – air pollution, pesticides, chemicals in our water supplies. All a little scary, and initially brushed off by some as wing-nut theory without validation.  But by the time we had our kids in the seventies, we were much more aware of what we fed our children.

Not that we got everything right, but we had a heightened awareness and tried to stay away from carbonated beverages, red food dye, and other obvious “junk foods.”  We used fresh fruits and vegetables and whole grains, and discouraged sweets.  We cooked from scratch whenever we could. Like our parents, we encouraged our kids to exercise.

Over time, we’ve learned more and more.  In my reading on diet and aging, I’ve come across a recurring theme – inflammatory, degenerative diseases like diabetes, arthritis, asthma, and heart disease are an increasing issue (not just for the aging), especially in developed nations – and diet is a huge factor.  Basically, we’re just little chemical factories, and we depend on the highest quality ingredients and regular maintenance to keep everything in balance and working.

Homeostatis occurs when there is chemical, electrical, pH, and general balance in a body’s ecological system. Merriam-Webster describes it as “a relatively stable state of equilibrium… between the different but interdependent elements or groups of elements of an organism…”  Bottom line, it’s a gift, and we seem to have a talent for messing it up.

At any age, but definitely for those of us who are aging, have lapsed, and need serious renovation, improved diet and exercise are still the best medicine. With exercise, everyone can find a way to start small – like walking regularly.  With diet, I’ve become increasingly convinced that an anti-inflammatory diet is the way to go. This approach has been gaining traction in the medical community, and naturopaths have long embraced it.

I stumbled across my first Inflammation book in our local natural foods store, and was amazed at the way it tracked with my health, and my husband’s.  So, I started a search on Amazon.com to learn more.  There are more than a dozen books on the topic (including a “Complete Idiot’s Guide” and one “for Dummies”).  All include medical background, and many include recipes and meal plans.  They all advocate a more natural diet.

Salad – Spinach, avacado, tomato, cranberries, grapes, walnuts; Frittata – egg whites, spinach

Some keys are natural/organic foods, good fats (Omega-3’s), exercise and sleep, and starting with an elimination diet. The diet involves limited foods to start, then gradually adding others to see if they cause symptoms. Some common culprits are dairy (lactose and whey), sugars, wheat gluten, and alcohol.

As a start on my retirement improved health plan, my beloved and I have been having fun shopping and cooking together.  We especially love building salads, using diced avocados & tomatoes as our “dressing” base.

Soups are next.

If you want to learn more, check out the books at the Amazon link above, or review some of the related articles listed below.   It’s never too early or too late to start eliminating inflammation from your system!

photo credits:  © adimas – Fotolia.com (heart), © Cobalt – Fotolia.com (factory)
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